well, being nice has it's disadvantages, many of which u have
stated... but u are not juz being nice to suit other ppl do
u???
u are being nice because that's u, if ppl can't appreciate u, u dun
have to bend ur personality, juz to counter such behaviour....
there ARE ppl who appreciate ppl like u, and those can be
considered ur true frens.
as for frens who insult.... that, i dun really consider them
frens?? cause after all u have done, they still treat u like dirt,
so u can dun interact wif them so often....
juz be urself, for u are living YOUR OWN LIFE, not a life that's
controlled by someone else
smile
=)